Raising a kid ( piece of cake) jk I'm by no means a perfect mother. I don't do everything perfect & I know people around me will tell me that I'm doing certain things wrong & will criticize me for them. This is why we all go through the 1st time of parenthood. Even if it's not the 1st time, we try our best to raise our children to the best of our abilities & capabilities. We learn from our mistakes. Nobody is perfect!!! My mother, or father or in laws or cousins will always have things to say of the way we raise our daughter. In my opinion, kids supposed to go through the kids stage & do what kids like to do. I don't mean like fighting or stealing or doing harmful things, but just let the kids be kids sometimes. I hear stories from families that parents need to be strict with their children or else SPANK SPANK SPANK. COME ONNNNNNNNNN, I know I don't spoil my daughter, but I know where the limit is. My daughter will sometime throw tandrum, will sometimes cry if she doesn't get the things she wants, & will embarrass us parents, but in the end, she's only a 2 year old!!! You cannot expect a 2 year old to behave the way everybody want her to behave!!! For us, we try our best to explain things to her, teach her manners, educate her, whatever it takes. She will not get it the very 1st time; this is why we repeat repeat repeat. Repeat until she gets the point. It takes time. It takes energy & effort to raise a kid. So next time when you see kids mis-behaving whether in your uncle's house or at the mall or park, just think what their parents are going through to teach their kids... Every parents want the best for their kids. DON'T BE JUDGEMENTAL!  Well, I got more pictures of my little Carla! Yes, she is LITTLE!!! 
Carla's 1st school picture 
Another school picture. I just took the picture from camera; didn't scan them... and more pictures........ 
I love this picture. It looks like she's doing the macarena dance. hehe 
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yes, that's a sty... 
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me, carla & my uncle ken 
my brother Stan, carla, uncle *************************************************************************** the below pictures are the ones teachers took in school... 
Carla, Imani, Bryan, & Emily concentrating on painting 
going outside 
The teachers brings these kids to the park a lot... 
Bernice & Carla 
Bernice, Carla, Bryan 
Carla & Bernice 
fire-kids!  
these 3 are always together!!!  
future police!! hahahahaha!!! 
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Not that we always ly to her but sometimes we gotta do it so we get stuff done. 
