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Original: 7/2/2008 9:52 PM
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Wednesday, July 02, 2008

 

Raising a kid  ( piece of cake) jk

 

I'm by no means a perfect mother. I don't do everything perfect & I know people around me will tell me that I'm doing certain things wrong & will criticize me for them. This is why we all go through the 1st time of parenthood. Even if it's not the 1st time, we try our best to raise our children to the best of our abilities & capabilities. We learn from our mistakes. Nobody is perfect!!! My mother, or father or in laws or cousins will always have things to say of the way we raise our daughter. In my opinion, kids supposed to go through the kids stage & do what kids like to do. I don't mean like fighting or stealing or doing harmful things, but just let the kids be kids sometimes. I hear stories from families that parents need to be strict with their children or else SPANK SPANK SPANK. COME ONNNNNNNNNN, I know I don't spoil my daughter, but I know where the limit is. My daughter will sometime throw tandrum, will sometimes cry if she doesn't get the things she wants, & will embarrass us parents, but in the end, she's only a 2 year old!!!  You cannot expect a 2  year old to behave the way everybody want her to behave!!!  For us, we try our best to explain things to her, teach her manners, educate her, whatever it takes. She will not get it the very 1st time; this is why we repeat repeat repeat. Repeat until she gets the point. It takes time. It takes energy & effort to raise a kid. So next time when you see kids mis-behaving whether in your uncle's house or at the mall or park, just think what their parents are going through to teach their kids... Every parents want the best for their kids. DON'T BE JUDGEMENTAL!  

Well, I got more pictures of my little Carla! Yes, she is LITTLE!!!

 

 

Carla's 1st school picture

 

Another school picture. I just took the picture from camera; didn't scan them...

and more pictures........

I love this picture. It looks like she's doing the macarena dance. hehe

 

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yes, that's a sty...

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me, carla & my uncle ken

my brother Stan, carla, uncle

 

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the below pictures are the ones teachers took in school...

Carla, Imani, Bryan, & Emily

concentrating on painting

going outside

The teachers brings these kids to the park a lot...

Bernice & Carla

Bernice, Carla, Bryan

Carla & Bernice

fire-kids!

these 3 are always together!!!

 

future police!! hahahahaha!!!

 

 

 

 Posted 7/2/2008 9:52 PM - 166 Views - 28 eProps - 14 comments

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Tee hee, she is so cute! I think you are a great mom. Yes, others will always criticize -- and especially Chinese relatives, they want you to just spank! -- but you are the parent, YOU will make the right decision for Carla! Stick by your guns. :)
Posted 7/2/2008 3:05 PM by bevconeal Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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Posted 7/2/2008 4:13 PM by TopSites_x - reply

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u are doing a very good job. btw carla is so cute in her police hat
Posted 7/2/2008 4:15 PM by qqLuvqq - reply

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it gets on my nerves when ppl criticize the way parents raise their kids. giving advice if asked is ok, but sometimes some people will just try to preach with how to raise your kids, what is wrong with those type of people right?

it looks like carla is enjoying her school, how fun! she's so cute! i wish i was 2 yrs old again!
Posted 7/2/2008 6:50 PM by gr00vy_mama - reply

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awww~ she's all grown up! i've learned to never judge how another parent deals with their child because every child is just SOOOO different. what might work for one child might not work for the next. J has his moments of insanity in public and it's so embarrassing but what can we do? they're only TWO~
Posted 7/2/2008 10:00 PM by munchkincho Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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Great pics as usual. Love the one with the fire hat.  So cute.
Posted 7/3/2008 3:13 AM by cindy1029 - reply

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The picture of her painting is sooo cute.

Kids will be kids and you know what's best for your kid.

Posted 7/3/2008 8:01 AM by ilovepearly Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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everyone has different parenting styles. but by the looks of it, you're doing a good job in raising her. the most important thing is to love your child. other people need to shut their mouth! love the pics of her! my favorite ones are the ones with her wearing a helmet. hahahahaha! too cute!
Posted 7/3/2008 11:55 AM by BLuBuTTaFLyGirL - reply

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you're doing a fantastic job. it's difficult to juggle between family, professional life and time for yourself. i know my mother stayed home for few years to raise my brother and i while my father worked
Posted 7/3/2008 12:05 PM by poor_collegestudent - reply

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such an active little lady!
Posted 7/4/2008 4:12 PM by missdoya Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Carla is so cute!!!  she has grown and looks like a little girl!! she looks mature too and starting to look like you!!  make me want to have a girl.... 
Posted 7/7/2008 9:52 PM by mic1ui - reply

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Hahaha that's so funny they gave her a violin to pose with for school pictures. That police one is my favorite though :)
Posted 7/27/2008 3:46 AM by youngvan Xanga True Member - reply

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The elders will always have something to say but you're doing the most important thing....UNCONDITIONALLY LOVING HER!!

Posted 7/28/2008 12:31 PM by MissJeter2002 - reply

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That violin- My friend started his two daughters on Suzuki method violin when each was three years old and the violins looked like they came from a Barbie collection. Now one is ten now and the other is eight and they both play violin in church right along with the piano player(and the piano player is thirteen). They are good. here->http://www.xanga.com/cafengocmy/652682753/tootsie-rolls/
Posted 2/13/2009 8:34 PM by cafengocmy - reply


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